Toxic People
SEVER ALL YOUR TIES WITH TOXIC PEOPLE
(& HABITS)
(An excerpt from the Book “UV-Love and UV-Light”)
This means to disconnect from all toxic people (& habits) in your life on a physical, mental and energetic level. (Even if they happen to be your biological family, significant other, in-laws, old friends or colleagues).
This also includes nice people, if they are still involved with toxic people or are mind-controlled themselves and they directly or indirectly affect you in a negative manner.
It is better to be on your own than being around back stabbers, corrupters, psychos, opportunists or sheep (who are slaves of a corrupt and insane system).
You cannot always avoid contact with these people (many of them work on a magickal, energetic level and it takes some time to sever the ties completely. Sometimes you get in contact with them to collect data or to understand certain corruption and deception dynamics and techniques).
However, you should keep this “Contract Contact” to a healthy and safe minimum for yourself. This will keep recovery time to a minimum from being with toxic or challenged people.
If necessary, this can mean to leave the geographical area these people live in or you grew up in, because it perpetuates old negative habits and patterns. Often these places are very toxic in themselves and have a certain magnetic attraction, that tries to trap you there till you are “old and die” and have energies that prevent you from fully living your Indigo potentials.
Again, it is better to be single or to be by yourself than to be immersed in toxic relationships or families.
If you really clear yourself and your walk-in body and want to meet other Indigos, your actions will have to reflect your words and your authentic Self. Your true desires will eventually come into your life and you will feel fulfilled. I have seen it work for me and it can work for you too, but you first have to create the basis for this i.e. sever all or keep to a minimum your ties with toxic people, energies and entities and be aware of their intentions and potentials.
~A KNIGHT OWNS HIMSELF/HERSELF- NO INFLUENCE OR SUBSTANCE DICTATES
OR RUNS THEIR LIFE AND THE LIVES OF THOSE AROUND THEM.
As A Knight You Overcome All Your Addictions. The True Armor Of Knighthood Is On The Inside, Not The Outside.
(Passage from the Knight’s Code)
Vrahc’:
Thank you, for your very true and common perspective on this topic.
Money and financial dependency are a major challenge when it comes to this, I agree.
I, myself, walked into a very financially-comfortable family here on Earth. We never starved and we never really had to worry about money. However, I experienced how money is used to entrap on a comfort and status level.
I know that having money is always better than not having money here on Earth. I just want to help those First Wavers who come from a similar background like mine to realize and see their challenges too. I agree that most of you (especially us younger Indigos) probably are facing a money shortage rather than financial overflow, but let us look at the other side of the spectrum too.
Let us assume you have money and you got used or are used to a comfortable and very predictable and somewhat financially secure life, but you feel that all this life offers you does not really fulfill you. If you know you are an Indigo and are here on a mission, you realize that playing golf, traveling the world or going to university and studying to get a hotshot position may not really help the mission much, unless you need to infiltrate certain circles or institutions to bust them. Also, many people in these circles are toxic controllers or sheep and being around them hurts you as an Indigo and prevents you from stepping into your power and from fulfilling your contracts.
Indigos in this situation, like me, have to make a choice. Would you rather stay in comfort and status? Or should you leave all this behind to embark on an uncertain mission and future. This takes courage and self-knowing, because all your old Ivy League buddies or your fancy family think you are mad and that you waste your life and talent away. They don’t threaten you directly necessarily, but subtly they convey to you that you are on path to doom and failure. It is psychological warfare so to speak.
“You are never going to make it”, “you are just chasing after a dream” or “what are you going to live of?” are common phrases used to intimidate or to confuse you. The most famous one is: “We are worried about you and we just want the best for you. You need to come back to us and we will take care of you.”
Once you have made your choice to follow your Indigo path, they usually switch to more heavy bombardment to make you insecure and confuse you.
“Are you part of a cult?”, “are you using drugs?” or “we think you are mentally ill/emotionally confused” are some of the favorite coercion techniques.
What I want to convey here is that when you walked into “normal” or wealthy Earth families, it is difficult to break away from it because your walk-in body is part of a certain establishment and your reputation is on the line.
My strategy for many years was, “Once your reputation is ruined, you can live more un-engaged”. Meaning that once people think you are weird or weak, they let go of you because you are not part of the clique or establishment anymore and you can be more free and be who you really are. I would, sometimes on purpose, embarrass myself or play stupid, so they would not expect things from me and therefore put pressure on me to be an over-achiever, or to be one of their darlings and toy-boys.
Once you are in that top spot, you have to deliver to them and you are at their mercy. I never had the desire to be part of the system because I knew that there would always be somebody more intelligent, more handsome, more sophisticated or richer, and more influential than me and that I would never be free. I knew I would have to give up my soul to be a part of the system, especially if I wanted to make it to the top and that was not even remotely my goal, I would rather die than become a slave or slave driver in a soulless system.
Oh Great, Honorable And Noble UV-Lady Knights & UV-Knights!
STEP OUT OF YOUR HATE, YOUR ANGER,
AND THE PAINS OF YOUR PAST!
STEP OUT OF YOUR CORPORATE WORLDS
AND THE HUNGER FOR USELESS POWER!
PUT ON YOUR ARMOR OF HONOR,
PICK UP YOUR SHIELD OF LOVE,
AND YOUR MIGHTY SWORD OF TRUTH!
BE LIVING PROOF THAT CHIVALRY AND VALOR
ARE ALIVE AND UNYIELDING!
DO YOU HAVE THE STRENGTH, THE COURAGE,
THE WISDOM, THE ANCIENT ENCODED MEMORIES
AND THE PASSION IT TAKES….. “?”
(Passage from the Knight’s Code)
I want to motivate and inspire all Indigos who are in comfortable, but unfulfilling or abusive systems or circles, to see those realities and make changes or leave them (even if it means that you have to give up your known status or comfort). It might be scary for your walk-in body in the beginning, but if you know who you are and what you can do, you will know you will survive. After your first personal transformation storms are over, you will be more fulfilled and powerful then ever before in this Earth life.
If you have lots of money and are spending it on unnecessary Earth things or just don’t know what to do with it, consider helping other Indigos who are still struggling to get back on their feet in a supportive and inspiring, but not pampering way.
Financial Superiority (superior meaning excellence not better than); is a very important part of being a First Wave Indigo Lady Knight or Knight here on Earth.
Meaning that you have control over your finances and that you channel them to productive situations and people, that create win-win situations and help the Indigo Nation and the Mission here, instead of just mindless social consciousness-driven and purpose-less consuming and spending.
I am really happy and thrilled in what direction this discussion is going.
Chapter IX: Money Monsters vs Money Masters
